Why willpower keeps losing
Every time your phone lights up, part of your attention goes with it, even if you don’t pick it up. Researchers at the University of Texas found that people did worse on attention and memory tasks when their phone was simply on the desk, face down and silent, than when it was in another room (Ward et al., 2017).
So the goal isn’t to resist the phone better. It’s to make checking it slow and awkward enough that you don’t bother.
Put distance between you and it
The simplest barrier is space. Before a focus block, put the phone in another room, or at least in a bag across the room. If you need it for two-factor codes or emergencies, leave it where you can hear a call but can’t see the screen.
Face down on the desk doesn’t count. It’s still in reach, and still pulling at you.
Add friction to every check
Make each check take a few extra steps:
- Put the phone in a drawer, a zipped bag or a box with a lid.
- Turn on Focus mode or Do Not Disturb, and allow only calls from a few people.
- Log out of the one app you open without thinking, for the length of the block.
Each step is small. Together they turn “just checking” into a decision, and most of the time you’ll decide not to.
Give your brain a time to check
Checking is easier to skip when you know when you can do it. Study in set blocks, then check your phone in the break. The focus timer does this for you: a 25 to 50 minute block, then a short break.
Write down what pulls you away
Keep a scrap of paper next to you. When you feel the urge to check, write down why: a message you’re waiting for, boredom, a hard question. After a few days you’ll see a pattern, and you can plan for it. The free Study Focus Kit has a worksheet for exactly this.
Watch the video
Watch on the FocusFlow Lab YouTube channel
Source: Ward, A. F., Duke, K., Gneezy, A., & Bos, M. W. (2017). Brain drain: The mere presence of one’s own smartphone reduces available cognitive capacity. Journal of the Association for Consumer Research, 2(2).